This is one area that parents have complete control.
Your child is your finest treasure and prized piece of art.
I have a six year old and I have an eight year old. I have placed them in whatever hits their fancy or interest. I go where the fun is rather than the talent at this time. The moment I notice loads of talent in anyone area that is where I will place my funds and attention.
If I notice that they have raw and specialized talent like playing the piano at an early age, I would start bribing them the very best that I can. I am totally into bribing and getting them to do what I believe is right. I must remember that they are kids and will challenge me along the way, but as the parent with funds and time, I will give them my very best efforts.
Parents should always look at the safety issue and what the family can handle financially and time. The hardest feelings will be the ones when you wish you had done a whole lot more at a later age. No one wants to say that.
Parents should enroll their kids in any and all programs that they can afford in bucks and in time immediately. They must sign their kids up when they notice something wonderful and exciting in their child. Even if the child is not that talented, you must give them the opportunity to try out. Along the way, show them techniques and approaches to lead them in the right direction. You give them extra talented coaches. Give them good reading material. You help them by mentally telling them constantly how much you love them and care what they do.
It is important that you talk to them while they are sleeping soundly at night. Do not disturb their rest. Say the following words and monitor what happens for the next 30 days. Say to them as they are sleeping, I love you and thank you. That is all. Please do not try to add major statements or anything else. I love you and thank you, are two statements that will be enough.
There is no right age to enter any event. As soon as the interest makes itself known you have to nourish it and soothe it. Get the necessary movies, books and magazines and other materials to enhance and create a great interest. Get stuffed animals and t-shirts and anything else that will bolster up that interest. Have fun thinking up new ideas and ways to keep that interest alive. Try to mesh whatever activity with their regular school work will be a treasure. Start now and do whatever it takes to keep that interest alive. There should be loads of games and programs that will peak your child's interest. As the parent you must judge what is right and harmful for your child.
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